Online Gambling & Youth
Technically, a person needs to be 18 years of age to gamble online. Yet we have talked with teens as young as 12 years old who have bet real money online. How do they do it?
Listen to Joshua. "I just click the button that says I'm 18, or I enter a fake birthday. Then I can just play with a prepaid (debit) card... I get those cards for Christmas and my birthday."
Caden's perspective: "My dad and I play together. We use his card. I even wrote down his card number and have played by myself. He doesn't pay attention to all his charges so he hasn't found out."
Internet gambling websites, even when played for 'free', are not a safe bet.
Although most people who play poker or other games--even when money is involved--don't develop gambling problems, this is the first generation of this kind of gambling. Electronic gambling (typically known through games like video poker and video slots) is considered the most addictive type of gambling. In fact, these games are so addictive they are often referred to as the 'crack cocaine' of gambling.
Above: it's hard to tell the difference between free sites and pay-to-play sites. Most of the time, it's a simple difference between ".net" and ".com." The free sites, as a rule, have better odds of winning.
How can online gambling be so addictive? The games are done in isolation, can be played (and money can be spent) very quickly, and there is no time limit for most electronic forms of gambling.
Internet gambling adds even more of a dimension to the concern of electronic gambling--more isolation more access to money (through credit cards), more time.
Think about it. Is your kid hooked on video games in general? Imagine how he or she would be with an added aspect of money on the line.
"So if this is a real concern, what can I do to help my kids?"
These tips, adapted from "The Anti-Drug" website advice, can be used to help your kids curb unhealthy behaviors--including gambling. (For more advice to parents on talking with your kids about drugs or alcohol, visit The Anti-Drug's advice pages).
- Get involved. Get to know who your kid hangs out with, and what they like to do. Have together time to catch up on the latest goings-on in their lives.
- Monitor your kids' behavior. Set limits with the amount of time they can spend online, as well as what sites they can visit and what games they can play. Enforce consequences (e.g., less time online) if the rules are not followed.
- Walk the walk. Set a good example. Are you spending more and more time gambling in general or online? Or do you show your kids how you set limits with your own gambling (and other) behaviors?
- Communicate. Talk with your kids about the risks of gambling, and the true odds of winning. Can't think of what to talk about? Take advice from the experts. The U.S. Federal Trade Commission advises parents to convey to their kids the following risks associated with online gambling (Source: http://www.ftc.gov/opa/2002/06/onlinegambling.htm):